Later that day, 7 of us from the school set off to play soccer with Yemeni women. We went by taxi to the Yemeni International School, which had a field (of gravel) surrounded by high walls. Women here do not take off their niqabs unless no one (with the exception of other women and their husbands) can see them. One Yemeni woman and one woman from India who taught biology in Sana'a came to play with us. Before going to play, the four Danish girls, Wendy, and I all went and bought the Yemeni soccer uniforms (for 5 dollars), so we were ready to play.
After soccer, I got into a taxi with two other girls from the school and went to a women's party that was being hosted by a sister of one of the male teachers. I wasn't sure I wanted to go, but once I got there I didn't want to leave! Since there were no boys allowed, all of the women were dressed in fancy, slightly scandalous dresses and everyone was dancing. There was a ton of food, fruit juices, tea, shisha, and qat. Whenever girls got up to dance, everyone sitting on the couches around the room would clap and sometimes the Yemeni women would do that "ALALALALALALALLALALA" sound with their tongues that you only hear in movies with terrorists. While Hollywood uses that sound for crazed extremists, in Arabic countries it's simply an expression of joy. After a couple hours we finally had to leave, and all the women veiled back up to leave the house, donning the all black that left me unable to discern who was who, even though I had been dancing and talking with them for hours.
I think the most interesting thing I learned today was how women in general live behind the scenes. You see them on the street and they're veiled to the point where you can only see their eyes. They don't work in the stores so you don't interact with them when shopping, women cannot eat in public so you don't see them in the restaurants, when they ride the bus they are normally very quiet. But there is this underground culture of women behind closed doors that is full of laughter and smiles and great dancers and snappy dressers. It's all very unexpected but I am so happy that it's something I can enjoy while I'm here. The women here have such strong bonds of sisterhood with each other, and are amazingly willing to apply the same sense of hospitality and fun to strange westerners. I've started to ramble but the whole day was a peek into the world of women here in an Islamic society.
Much love, and while I do love the female community here, I love shorts and t-shirts more.
Katie
3 comments:
Hi Katie
What a great day! Those soccer duds rock! What a great time you had at that all female party. The repression sounds terrible. Do the women see their lives as being repressed or just a way of life in their society? So interested in their point of view. I really can not make any assumptions of how they feel having never meet them or absorbed their opinions.
Have a great week!
Kirsten
Looking forward to your next blog - Love the World Cup uniforms- Hope you are screaming my name when you score. Love, Mom
I think it's incredibly interesting that that underground culture exists, and moreso the idea that it is tacitly tolerated by the male establishment, no?
Also, I'm glad to see that you have that "underground" area to have fun, relax, and enjoy the company of people you would normally assume are not approachable...I'm sure it is making your experience infinitely better.
How are the guys at the gym exactly? I mean, do they react a lot to the fact that you are a western woman, or is it normal?
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